In today’s digital world, screens are everywhere—our phones, tablets, laptops, and TVs. While technology offers connection, convenience, and entertainment, too much screen time can quietly develop into an unhealthy habit. Screen addiction isn’t always obvious at first, but over time, it can affect your physical health, mental well-being, relationships, and productivity. Here are key warning signs to watch for:

1. You Reach for Your Phone First and Last: If checking your device is the first thing you do in the morning and the last thing before bed—often without any real purpose—it may signal dependency.
2. You Lose Track of Time Online: Spending hours scrolling, binge-watching, or gaming without realizing how much time has passed can be a sign of compulsive use.
3. You Feel Anxious or Irritable Without Your Device: Feeling restless, bored, or even panicked when your phone isn’t nearby (or when the battery is low) can indicate emotional reliance.
4. Screen Time Interferes with Sleep: Exposure to screens before bed disrupts melatonin production, making it harder to fall and stay asleep. If you feel tired even after a full night in bed, late-night screen use may be to blame.
5. Physical Symptoms Appear: Headaches, dry eyes, neck pain (“tech neck”), and carpal tunnel-like symptoms may result from prolonged screen exposure and poor posture.
6. You Avoid Social Interactions: Choosing screen time over time with family, friends, or coworkers—especially when you’re physically present—can damage real-life relationships and signal avoidance behavior.
7. You Struggle to Focus Without Stimulation: Constant screen use can shorten your attention span, making it harder to concentrate on offline tasks like reading, conversations, or work responsibilities.

Awareness Is the first step. Recognizing these signs is the first move toward balance. Screen time isn’t inherently bad—it’s about how, when, and why you use it. Setting boundaries, taking digital breaks, and being intentional about your usage can help restore control and reconnect you with the world beyond the screen. If you find yourself wanting to change or modify your relationship with screens, contact your Local AFA EAP Committee. You can reach a Committee Member by calling (949) 470-0493. Your calls are confidential. 

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The holidays can be fun, but they also can be a source of great stress. Below are some common holiday stressors and suggestions for managing them.  

How Can You Deal With Difficult Family Interactions During the Holidays?

Being realistic is the first step. Family dynamics typically revert to historic patterns when families come back together. You don’t have to pretend that all is well, but, you can sidestep difficulties by anticipating them and planning on ways to temporarily separate and defuse.  

Do Financial Pressures Stress You Out to the Point of Ruining the Holiday Spirit?

Knowing your spending limit is also a way to relieve holiday stress. People believe that they have to go out and buy gifts because it’s the holidays, even if they can’t afford to do so. Not only is it stressful to feel that you have to buy everyone a gift, but you’ll be stressed for the rest of the year trying to pay off your bills. Perhaps this is the year to make a pact not to exchange gifts but to share time together. This could also help someone who isn’t in a financial position to exchange gifts with you.  

How Do Time Pressures Affect You Around the Holidays? 

Putting routines on pause or totally rearranging schedules because of the holidays are the ingredients for exhaustion and chaos.   Prioritize activities that are important and can fit around important replenishing activities like sleep, proper meals and exercise.

How Do You Deal With the Holidays When You Have Just Experienced A Recent Tragedy, Death or Break-up?

If you’re feeling really out of sorts because of a loss or stressor, try to tell those around you what you really need, since they may not know how to help you. Ask for their understanding if you decline an activity or can’t summon up the holiday spirit. Give yourself permission to grieve just as you would any other time of the year.

How Do You Cope With Kids Who Want Everything for the Holidays? 

Parents need to tell their children to be realistic. It is OK to say to your child that a certain toy is too expensive. Even Santa Claus has limited funds and has to choose what most to give because he has a very long list. You can also tell your children that Mom and Dad and Santa Claus will try to choose the suitable present for the child. Children have to learn that their wish is not someone’s command and to curb their desires for instant gratification. 

How Do You Manage the Holidays If They Start Feeling Painful? 

If you are unable to shake what you think are “holiday blues” your feelings may not be just about the holidays, but about other things in your life. If you need help in sorting out or dealing with painful thoughts or feelings, call your AFA EAP for confidential assistance. Call (949) 479-0493 or find contact information at afaalaska.org/eap. 

Adapted in part from the American Psychological Association at www.apacenter.org

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• May is Mental Health Awareness Month.
• Our AFA EAP Committee wants to share a few reminders about mental health, mental illnesses, and available support.
• You can reach out to your local AFA EAP Committee Members for assistance in connecting with a professional or addressing concerns, for yourself or a loved one.

What is mental health?

Mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects how we think, feel, and act. It also helps determine how we handle stress, relate to others, and make healthy choices. Mental health is important at every stage of life, from childhood and adolescence through adulthood.

Can your mental health change over time?

Yes, it’s important to remember that a person’s mental health can change over time, depending on many factors.  When the demands placed on us exceed our resources and coping abilities, our mental health could be impacted. 

How common are mental illnesses?

Mental illnesses are among the most common health conditions in the United States. More than 1 in 5 US adults live with a mental illness. About 1 in 25 U.S. adults lives with a serious mental illness, such as major depression.

What causes mental illness?

There is no single cause for mental illness. A number of factors can contribute to risk for mental illness, such as:

• Adverse Childhood experiences such as trauma or a history of abuse 
• Experiences related to other ongoing (chronic) medical conditions, such as cancer or diabetes
• Biological factors or chemical imbalances in the brain
• Use of alcohol or drugs
• Having feelings of loneliness or isolation

How can you protect and support your own mental well-being?

Evaluate your mental well-being on a routine basis just like you are advised to do for your physical health. Your AFA EAP can help you connect with a professional to assist you with that process or to address any concerns you may have about your or a loved one’s mental health.  Your local AFA EAP Committee Members can be found on the EAP Committee page of the AFA Alaska website or you can call (949) 470-0493.